About a third of our conscious life we spend in search of the ideal man. But, even living side by side with a man, we still fail to understand what they really want. And the problem here is not men at all, but the fact that we women are completely different and, unlike the stronger sex, tend to exaggerate and sharply react to meaningless abandoned phrases.
let's consider 10 interesting factsthat will help women better understand the psychology of men.
1. Almost all men are big children, so do not be surprised that they can not imagine their life without cars, computer games and adrenaline. Men, like children, love to compete with each other and are terribly afraid to make important decisions.
2. Men love only with their eyes, and this is a fact. And no matter how much they rebuke and try to convince you that they have fallen in love with your pure soul and kind heart, you should not fully believe what was said.
3. The friendship of men and women is a myth. No man will begin to make friends with a woman who does not seem to attract him. Most likely the so-called girlfriend was once the object of a man’s love, and maybe continues to be her. Therefore, in order to avoid family conflicts, it is better to initially make it clear to the man that you are against such friendship.
4. All men, like women, want to be loved and need constant compliments and support. The more often a man hears compliments from his beloved woman, the more effort he will put into making her life happy.
5. Men do not like to obey and are panicky afraid of being known as henpecked. To avoid conflicts on this basis, more often emphasize the strengths of your man and let him decide for you two as often as possible, of course, within reason.
6. The average man hates poorly characterized and ever aching women. And that is a fact. We all choose the most convenient living conditions, and who likes to live with a whiner and a pessimist?
7. Men constantly talk about freedom and personal space, but as soon as they get it, a new and absolutely opposite need arises - the constant presence of a woman nearby.
8. Men cannot fully surrender to women. The second half is only part of their full and eventful life. In fact, it is much more important for a man to take place in life and take a worthy position in society, so do not interfere with his desire to quickly move up the career ladder.
9. Unlike us, men hate heart-to-heart talks and silly questions from the series “What would you do?” or "what are you thinking about?" Women are used to living with their fantasies and dreams of the ideal man. Men, however, cannot understand our subtle mental organization, since they live by facts and solve issues as they become available.
10. All men are owners and terrible jealous, although they try not to show us this. And at the same time, they negatively relate to jealousy on the part of women. You must admit that this is a fairly unfair and somewhat selfish behavior, but there is nothing to be done about it, you just have to put up with it.
This is far from all facts about men, but if you take them into account, you can quickly find a common language with them, and to some extent even re-educate. And then building a joint life will not be difficult.